Many people after the love feel that they have selected a wrong pair because of the arguments between them. Conflict is not what causes a relationship to fall apart; it is the tendency to avoid conflict that causes a couple to part ways. Yes, conflict is an essential thing which can keep the relationship still stronger. Generally a person (boy/girl) get angry or argue to the one whom they like the most. This is because they always expect something from their partner. This expectation comes as a result of relationship and when this expectation is not satisfied it leads to conflict. But most of all when you try solving the conflict your partner realise your love on him/her and the relationship between you both still get stronger.
When you argue, crib, and complain, you are actually interested in making the situation better. When you give your partner the silent treatment, you are just creating more distance between the two of you. Yes, arguments are not bad for your relationship; it is when you start avoiding them, you start making your relationship worse.Whatever be your reason of avoiding conflict – love, fear, or peace – you are not helping your relationship by keeping a distance from your differences. The differences still stay. What you need is to handle the differences in a smart way. A happy couple will handle the differences smartly; at times, it may mean visible disagreements. If you want your relationship to work, don’t ignore the differences but embrace them in a smart way. Conflict resolution is important for a good relationship.
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